5 things you must do after a breakup

If you are going through a breakup, I can feel your pain my dear. I am just going to write down 5 things you must do to heal and become better and not bitter.

-First you must morn the loss, I personally do this while playing piano in my sweatpants eating chocolate ice cream. You must morn the loss to heal 100% or it will come back and bite you in the ass later. If that means crying in bed while tearing at your clothes and vlogging a video called "why won't anyone love me" then go for it, just don't do anything self destructive while going through this period, alcohol, drugs and hurting yourself or anyone else only hides the pain, it doesn't solve anything.

-Take some time and talk to someone reliable and responsible. Share how your feeling and what your next positive move is going to be.

-Learn how to be single again and this means learning who you are as a human being because jumping from relationship to relationship is not mentialy or emotionally healthy for you in the long run. Learn that hell or high water you can always depend on yourself and this means emotionally and financially.

-Do something positive for yourself. A spa day or a hike will suffice.

-Move on when the time is right, this is different for everyone.

I wish you well my love!

Boyfriend jeans are my new addiction

You can dress them up

Or down

Either way, I am an addict to this seasons fastest selling trend! I love the look even on me! 

Take a cue from nature

The colors for this fashion season are vastly different then last summer, the blue Tiffany color has moved to Toasted Almond. Wile last summer we where all out for bandus and self cut shirts, this summer is a little moved backward to the wild side. We are taking cues from nature which is great if you live somewhere warm. 

Wile we are wearing boyfriend jeans and plain oversized tees and are new pair of Dolce Vita sandals, I have noticed one thing. We are getting more neutral than ever, getting back to classic styles instead of the amazing designers trying to hard that leads them to over the top ideas and more subtle authentic idea of fashion. 

Jean on Jean and a wife beater with a normal pair of jeans and topped of with an oversized stylish jacket. I'm such a fan of the fashion understatement this season. It only makes us wonder why we haven't even thought of these classics before? 

PJ's are a TREND!

So Alessandra Codinha a fabulous writer for VOGUE, says in one of her many intriguing posts for the said magazine that PJ's are in trend! I could not wait to finish the article to strut right out of my newly furnished house in my pjs, like I had yerned to do countless times before. I decided to finish the article and good thing I did. PJ's are a new trend to a point but not the specific point your thinking of. 

Pajamas are the key to this widely outrageous trend that I think is genius enough to make me think Alessandra one day wanted to wear her loose fitted shirts and sweatpants that she loaned from her friend 3 years ago and have yet to return to her. Then I thought, it's crazy enough to try, and well, as well as the hope that PJ's you already own could work hold on to your car keys because you'll need them when I say it's the STYLE of PJ's are in fashion and not the PJ's itself. 

Although, it is a risky trend, H&M and Forever 21 are gearing up to open the door to the public to sell this style. Wile its profit they want selling trendy clothing, is this fashion statement understated or overstated? Will you be a part trying new fashion out this season or going with the good old denim shorts from Hollister, oversized t's and Dolce Vita striped sandals? 

See for yourself! 

http://www.vogue.com/contributor/alessandra-codinha/

http://m.hm.com/us/subdepartment/LADIES?page=1&Nr=2048034#items

http://www.forever21.com/Product/Product.aspx?BR=f21&Category=whatsnew_app&ProductID=2000116724&VariantID=

From Stoner Hipster to Matthew Mcconaughey hair

With a little bit of talking into from yours truly look at his amazing hair transformation 

Long time coming

I haven't written in awhile and I'm so sorry about that but since last year my world has turned upside down and I can calmly say now that first time in the last half a decade I am single. Life as a single girl is not something I am used to in any means, I have been completely in love and faithful to one guy for the last 5 years and I'm still kind of lost. I guess life is all about new experiences so I'm still taking that with a grain of salt. I wanted to get back to my roots and my ignored blog that I love so much. Over the next couple of days I will write more in this blog about local fashion in the Metro Denver area. Taa-Taa for now loves

-Candra  

Go-Go Dancing

So, what I have forgot to mention is that I'm a go-go dancer, like many of my friends we have gotten a bad rap over the years so I am here to set the record straight. Go-Go Dancing is a job and like a job you want to do your best at it which also means being in shape. When I started this blog a year ago, my main target was 14-18 females, but it has become apparent to me that girls my own age have been reading this, getting tips and tricks on becoming in shape and hacks to beauty and appearance that I have shared with you in the last year. The secret life of a promotions model is one of no secret at all. A girls got to get by.